Proud Teenage Porn Stars

Yikes! What’s the latest rage about girls in their early teens losing their virginity so young? What’s up with that? If you ask me, I think it’s pretty sad. No. Correction: It’s not pretty sad; it’s VERY sad. And before I get all the way into this, I would just like to note that I am not a religious person, and that my feelings on this issue have nothing to do with religion AT ALL.

• Is it peer pressure? I believe that it’s part of it. Having sex between the ages of 12 – 16 is considered “cool” and “in”. If you’re still a virgin at this age, you’re considered “weak” and a “prude” and will probably be made fun of as you stand alone among all the other girls who are proudly sexually active.

• Does this have anything to do with loneliness, lack of self-worth or self-esteem? I do think this does play a role. This does not mean that if you have low self-esteem that you’re bound to humping everything and anything within arms reach. However, if you are proud of your body, you will not give it up so easily. Sex should be an act of intimacy where both partners love each other or at least have some intentions of committing themselves to one another – even though things may not work out in the end. (And when I say, “having sex”, I do not mean, “fucking” because to me, they are two different things all together!)I strongly believe there are many women out there that think their bodies are just a plain old piece of meat that they can easily give up to any and every “hot guy” that shows any signs of approval or likeness toward them. And they’ll do whatever it takes to keep receiving that attention from that “hot guy”. “Hey someone likes me! He wants to fuck? Bring it on. I don’t want to lose the attention from him.” Perhaps these loose women never got their basic needs met from their own parents, so they crave approval and the desire to be “wanted” outside the family. So, they’ll do something stupid enough like giving their body up just to keep the guy around. But as we all know, most teenage boys don’t hold on to their ladies. They’re playing the field and will eventually get tired of the girls they’re with. So, this desperate, insecure female will spread her legs wide open again for the next “hot guy” that comes around.Last, but not least, some girls just plain old can’t handle being alone. They will do whatever it takes to please their partner (even if that means unprotected sex) so as to not ever have to be without one. Have you ever asked yourself why these girls can’t handle being alone? The answer’s pretty obvious to me.
• Does this have anything to do with previous sexual abuse? In my opinion, this could also play a role. One of the symptoms of early childhood sexual abuse is promiscuity. I’ve done a lot of research on this topic over the period of several years, and unfortunately, it’s the sad truth that many do not want to admit to. Many of these “easy girls” won’t admit to it because they have it repressed so deeply that they’ve forgotten that as an infant, they were their father’s sex slave. Not too many would remember that. I had seen a documentary on prostitutes on TV where they were interviewed and all of them had admitted to having been abused sexually from a young age. So, no. Not everyone has conveniently forgotten. And here I’m not implying that if you’ve been sexually abused, that EVERYONE will become a slut. Some young abuse victims are sexualized by their experience – this may make them vulnerable to further sexual exploitation, or likely to seek it out as some kind of affirmation of their lovability. Many prostitutes, male and female, are survivors. Statistically, survivors of childhood abuse are more likely than non-survivors to suffer sexual harassment, abusive relationships or even rape in later life.This connects with the second theory I had regarding the lack of self-esteem – as childhood sexual abuse survivors DO view themselves as worthless pieces of “used-up” meat and have no clue how sacred their body is.
• Does this have anything to do with hormones causing one to crave sex constantly? Well, actually, I DON’T think so. Following puberty, yes, some will feel sexual all the time because of the change in hormones. Everyone reaches their peak at different ages. But this is NO EXCUSE to give up your body to every Tom, Dick, and Harry that looks you pleasingly in the eye! I’m not going to get into detail here, but there are other things that women or teenagers can do to relieve sexual tension and cravings. Trust some of us women out there that it DOES WORK.
• Does this have anything to do with the way Sex Education is taught in schools or by the parents of teens? As far as school is concerned, I can’t really say for sure because I don’t know how it is taught these days. However, I think more of the focus here should be on the parents for either not giving a fuck and not teaching them, or for teaching them and leaving out how the the body should be regarded with pride. Teens, if they’re overly sheltered by over-protective parents, just may go out and do everything that they know is wrong so that they can feel free. That’s a bit far fetched, but in some cases it is the case.

What I find to be as frightening as hell are those teens or young adults that are actually proud of being sexually active and having lost their virginity to abusive men at an age where children are supposed to be children! It never ceases to amaze me, actually. That’s something I wouldn’t be proud of nor would it be something I’d share with another person. Scary. Sad. Weird.

As far as casual sex is concerned or “Friends with Benefits”, I’m all for it so long as it’s mutual. And so long as

• protection is used.
• they are at least 18.
• they aren’t confusing this casual relationship with “true love”.
• they don’t lie to others saying that it’s their boyfriend when he’s really a “fuck buddy”.
• they don’t brag about it.
• they don’t make fun of others who haven’t involved themselves in casual encounters.

No. Casual sex isn’t anything to be proud of either, but it’s a lot easier for me to digest compared to Child Porn Stars that think they’re the shit. They’re really filthy, disgusting, dirty, used-up sluts who have no clue that they’ve got a huge problem. Child Porn Stars wouldn’t be so much of a concern for me if they admitted that they had/have a problem.

Now, if I’m a sexist for not mentioning male “Child Porn Stars”, I just may be. We always hear about how men are “players”, right? What about the women? Who ever spends time discussing how slutty they are? Not too many. Is that because it’s the men that are the horny ones? I think not. Women are just as sex-starved and promiscuous as men – if not more. “Men always think with their ‘head’”? Naaah, a lot of women think with their ‘lips’. It’s not always what appears to be obvious, that’s true. And this is why I’m only writing about women.

Side note: Before anybody accuses me of having a “religious motive” behind this post, I don’t believe in God!